Monday, February 9, 2009,
You are a succesful young woman or man, does that mean for every mistake you make, every problem you have it should be broadcasted and you should be over - penalized because of your status? or new fame? In my opinion I think not ! Yes, your in the public eye, and fans look up to you, but what people don't understand is before you became famous you were one of us, and after your career you'll go right back to being one of us.
I love a few musicians, and respect them for their music and depending on their lyrics, for tem as well, alot of artist will write genuinely from the heart, it will be on something they mean or how they feel and that's what helps us make a better connection with them, in my opinion - but I always look at it as "a young everyday fella/female who had ambition to chase his/her dreams and make it" not "omg the biggest hottest celeb *drool drool* lol" you get the point?
The latest case of chris brown and rihanna, as unfortunate as it is that it happened, behind everything there is a reason, behind every action theres a re-action, he more than likely was given reason to act how he did, do I condole hitting a women, or the opposite or same gender, in most cases no, in some cases yes - why I say that, is because we are all humans, and as humans we have emotions, we get happy, mad or sad - my most prominent emotion is mad, and it could make you act imbalanced and often on impulse, but this is why I tell everyone, a certain point of anger is harmful and you need to learn when to put it under control. So, three anger management classes, and two therapists later, here I am lol
I kind of went off track, but back to the C&R case, If his fan base is shaken by this event, It just shows how high on a pedastale people put celebs, I don't want to inquire on what, why, or how but I do hope his actions are something he just had to do, not on impulse, but because in his mind, there was nothing else to do, and even if it was an instant reaction - The fact that he was man enough to turn himself in, should show the people enough. I highly respect C.B as an artist, and as another average man.
But like all average humans, we all go through dark times so that we would be able to see brighter days - some darker then others, but in all we must keep our head up and heart strong, because the biggest let down is letting yourself down, not anyone else.
I'm starting to doze again so, bedtime it is !
7:02 PM