I'm Simone jamila, and your about to take a journey into the depths of my mind.
I'm eighteen years old, and have experienced more then I should for my a girl my age,
but i'm thankful for all i've been through because it's made me into the strong young woman,
I am today and i wouldn't have it any other way.
Live, learn, and love♥.
"Can she take a knifeto her chest? Is she invincibleto bullets? Is she? Let me know, before I try it"
I had to share that video with yall, because alot of people underestimate the craziness of spouses and no i'm not just talking girlfriends, I mean boyfriends as well. This is a thing, known as "obsessive love" a love the person thinks is so strong that they cannot let go, or rather that they will not let go - no matter what the situation maybe. Do not be shaking your head going "hey that's not me" because just about everyone has their obsessive, over protective moments wether it be for a moment in the relationship, or throughout the entire thing. Jealousy is a natural thing that comes along with relationships, and as in any relationship it could either hurt or help the relationship, in most cases, it hurts more.
Their are four phases to obsessive love:
Phase one : Attraction phase Becoming "hooked on the look" of another, focusing on the person's physical characteristics while ignoring personality differences.
Phase two : Anxious phase Unfounded thoughts of infidelity on the part of a partner and demanding accountability for normal daily activities.
Phase three : Obsessive phase Neurotic, compulsive behaviors, including rapid telephone calls, and constant visits to love interest's place of residence or workplace.
Phase four : Destructive phase Overwhelming feelings of depression (feeling "empty" inside) and feeling a sudden loss of self-esteem, due to the collapse of the relationship.
Obsessive love can lead to dangerous consequences. Extreme obsessive love can be the cause of stalking, suicide, and murder, amongest other things. And this is something that people don't really take into account, they never see the serious-ness or the possible consequences of being in a relationship like this.
But this was just some food for thought, Stay tuned.