Monday, March 9, 2009,


"Can she take a knife to her chest?
Is she invincible to bullets? Is she?
Let me know, before I try it"



I had to share that video with yall, because alot of people
underestimate the craziness of spouses and no i'm not just talking girlfriends,
I mean boyfriends as well. This is a thing, known as "obsessive love"
a love the person thinks is so strong that they cannot let go,
or rather that they will not let go - no matter what the situation maybe.
Do not be shaking your head going "hey that's not me" because just about
everyone has their obsessive, over protective moments wether it be for a moment
in the relationship
, or throughout the entire thing. Jealousy is a natural thing
that comes along with relationships, and as in any relationship it could either
hurt or help the relationship, in most cases, it hurts more.


Their are four phases to obsessive love :

Phase one : Attraction phase
Becoming "hooked on the look" of another,
focusing on the person's physical characteristics
while ignoring personality differences.

Phase two : Anxious phase
Unfounded thoughts of infidelity on the part of a partner
and demanding accountability for normal daily activities.

Phase three : Obsessive phase
Neurotic, compulsive behaviors, including rapid telephone calls,
and constant visits to love interest's place of residence or workplace.

Phase four : Destructive phase
Overwhelming feelings of depression (feeling "empty" inside)
and feeling a sudden loss of self-esteem,
due to the collapse of the relationship.


Obsessive love can lead to dangerous consequences.
Extreme obsessive love can be the cause of stalking,
suicide, and murder
, amongest other things.
And this is something that people don't really take into account,
they never see the serious-ness or the possible consequences
of being in a relationship like this.


But this was just some food for thought, Stay tuned.


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